Importance of Positive Thinking

I've been reading a lot over the last few months to a year, a lot more than usual. Many inspiring and thought-changing books like Joyce Meyer's "Power Thoughts" and Rick Warren's "Purpose Driven Life", to name a few. I truly believe, and KNOW, that self-development is key. Sometimes, you have to get quiet and just focus. In our daily lives we are so distracted by things like TV, radio, gossip, etc. At one point in my life I used to think very negatively and was very down on myself, and my life reflected those thoughts. What you focus on begins to manifest. Slowly I began learning new ways to think, having more confidence and being more positive. And my life began to change dramatically. I met so many positive people, who were doing great things in their lives. And I learned from them everyday. I still am :) I appreciate all of the blessings and learning experiences. I just wanted to share, and to let you know that positive thinking is KEY. Life is life and we will still have struggles, but I am in such a happy place now that I have changed my mind-set.

Keep your head up, count your blessings, and STAY POSITIVE! It works :)
Be blessed.

KeetaRay

"I Whip My Hair Back 'n Forth..."

Earlier today, Willow Smith's video for "Whip my Hair" premiered on BET. I love this song. Will and Jada's kids are too cute. I like the video. Looks fun and age-appropriate. Ok, Willow! ;)



**I don't know how long the video I posted will work since they are pulling it off sites, so if it ends up not working that is why.

Out with Friends!

This past Wednesday was my birthday, so I went out with some friends last night to celebrate. I wore a twist-out pinned up on one side.

I had a really good time out playing in DC! ;)

Today's Natural Hair Question: Which products are good for biracial hair?

Hey, everyone! A close friend of mine recently asked me which products I thought were good for biracial hair to reduce/prevent frizz and hold the natural curl. Granted, I cannot speak from experience here, BUT I have a few biracial friends who tell me what they use and their hair always looks great. I'll share the top 2 product lines they use, and also would like my readers who can speak from experience to weigh in, as well.

The first one is Mixed Chicks. Now, I use Mixed Chicks and personally love it even though I have a kinkier hair texture. I've tried the shampoo and the leave-in. However, I know it was created for those with biracial hair in mind. My friend who uses it LOVES it. Here is their website: www.mixedchicks.net. The leave-in prevents hair from frizzing and also gives a nice, light hold to your natural curl.

The 2nd one is Hair Rules. What I love about Hair Rules is that they have products specifically for kinky hair, curly hair, and wavy hair. Full product lines for both - shampoo, conditioners, and styling products. I've tried them, also - GREAT results. And my friend who has a looser curl pattern also loves them. She is the one who reccomended them to me. Here is the site: http://www.hairrules.com/

Please leave comments with other products that are great for naturals with a looser curl pattern or hair that is more fine so we can all learn. I love to learn about all hair textures, not just my own. Natural hair is beautiful!! :-)

Have a great day!

Today's Natural Hair Question

From time to time, I receive questions from friends, family, and friends of friends regarding going natural. What products did I use when transitioning from relaxers to natural hair, what products I use now, what is best for holding styles like twists without flaking, etc. What I will do is start to post the questions on my blog and answer for all to view and weigh in on. No two textures are alike, so while I love to give advice and share what has worked for me, it may not work for you. So, if others give their take along with my own opinions/experiences, we can all learn so much more :)

Today's Question: Does mousse work well for holding twists for a twist out? I've tried gels but they flake and make my hair hard.

My response: I have never tried mousse while natural, so I cannot say if they work for me or not. However, I've found that using a good leave-in conditioner and an alcohol-free gel work great for me to hold my twists and give great definition for twist outs. Here are my faves: For leave-ins I use Cantu Shea butter leave-in (purchased at Walmart or Target), or Kinky Curly Knot Today (purchased online at www.kinky-curly.com, at Whole Foods, or your local natural hair salon). For gels, I have two favorites: Eco Styler Gel (the clear one) or ic Fantasia Olive Gel. You can get either one from your local Beauty Supply Store or Walmart or Target. They don't have alcohol so they don't dry your hair out or cause flaking. They also don't have protein (like "black gel", which can cause flaking).

So, I'd like to pose the same question for my readers. What do you all think? What products are great for your twists and twist outs that give great definition and hold?

Style Rut! :-(

Could it be!? Almost 2 years natural and... NOOOOOO!!! I think I have run out of styles! :-/ Wait, no... That's impossible. I have so many options. Someone, help! I need ideas. Tired of this bun and I'm in no mood to do mini-twists... and although I LOVE LOVE LOVE my twist 'n curl styles, I'd like another option. Any ideas?

Favorite Styles

I can't believe it will soon be 2 years that I've been natural (this November). The time went by really fast. My staple style is the twist 'n curl - I posted on that a little bit ago. But my other fave now is my bun! When my twist 'n curl gets old (or I get lazy with my hair), I put it in a high bun. It's cute and easy, and I can leave it like that for a few days until I muster up the energy to do my hair again. Lol It's also a great protective style.

What are some of YOUR favorite hairstyles?

Changed my mind... Just a HIATUS.

Hi, Everyone!


In my last post I stated that I'd be ending this blog. Well... after thinking about it (and slightly missing it), I decided to keep it up AND update from time to time. But the updates will probably be less often and the next one after this won't be for awhile. Let's just call it a brief hiatus. I've been so busy with the new job and my business and LIFE itself. So when things slow down a bit, I'll be back. Until then, be BLESSED and I appreciate you all!!! :)

KeetaRay

Blog Change!! - It's the end of an era...

Hi, Everyone!!

The sad news is... I am "ending" this Blogger. The good news is... I have moved to Tumblr! You can find me here: KeetaRay's Tumblr. I'll keep this blog up for the information it already has as a reference, but new posts and updates will be on my Tumblr site. Please follow! :-)

KeetaRay

This Week's Natural Hair Feature: Lateshia

1. How long have you been natural? Did you transition, BC, both?
I Transitioned for 3 months, lol I couldnt take transitioning any longer than that!!!

I was looking in the mirror one nite and just Chopped it all off. January 16, 2009 was my BC date.

2. What reaction have you received since going natural? Did you announce your decision or did you just do it?
I Just Did it No announcement, I actually didnt wear my hair out after the BC, I already had a scheduled

 hair appointment the next day, But when people were finally able to see what I had done, the remarks I got were mainly

" Oh natural looks good on you", or "it fits you", or the "my hair to nappy to do that."

3. What are your current fave styles to do on your hair? Do you have a staple style? Please share how you achieve it :)
I dont do alot of styles lol my hair is still short due to all the cutting (for a while i loved it short!) but I mainly do fro hawks and  some

updos . My staple style is my fro hawk.

 

 

4. What has been the most significant change within yourself that you've noticed since going natural?

Im alot more confident and out going. Willing to do certain things i'd never have done with relaxed hair. lol

Like getting caught in the rain :). I feel free.

5. What do you love most about being natural?

Honestly, lol I love that my hair stands still where the wind blows lol no more adjusting or pulling out

the comb or brush to fix it. lol

6. What are your must-have products? Any favorites that you cannot do without?
Water, essential oils, shea butter, herbal essence conditioner (hello hydration), oyin handmades' juices and berries, lekair cholesterol

deep conditioner and my Eco styler. hmm I'd say the herbal essence condition is a MUST!!!